The Poison of Male Incivility - When a woman dares respond to it, she’s seen as 'disruptive.'

"[P]atriarchal power abuse remains so expected as to not be notable as a violation of norms or civility, as disruptive or chaotic. Instead, it simply coexists with the authority, the command, the humanity of white men — it’s just part of what their power looks like."

https://www.thecut.com/2020/07/aoc-speech-ted-yoho-new-york-times.html